What you think you are is just a fragment of what you actually are. This disparity is the root cause for most of the failures of our life. Your potential is unlimited. In order to realize it, you have to go beyond your limited mind.
The best method to transcend times of transition is witnesshood. Just be. Just watch. Just observe. Do not involve your min. Do not analyse, think or plan. Because you do not know what lies ahead in the times of transition. Hence witness, watch and let go. Just be there. Time will serve as a boatman to take you across the river of uncertainty.
Being positive in every situation is the right attitude and one of biggest gifts that you can give to yourself and your family.
Doubts are the clouds that obscure the sunshine of Grace which is always available.
The right friends are those who keep you positive at all times. Those who bring negativity, alienation, estrangement, enmity and illusions to your mind, however close they are to you, must be avoided at all times. The value of a true friend will reflect in your life in the form of unity and unconditional love and zero hatred. This is the true satsang (spiritual community).
The natural antidote for negativity is positivity. Increase positivity to counter the negativity influences of life.